So there’s a new test running around Fetlife. I decided what the hell, why not? I took it. I think the results are pretty accurate. The sadist bit surprised me a little, but not much. and I would have thought the experimentalist would have been a little higher. I love that there is 0 vanilla in there anymore 😉
I dated my results as I am very curious if they will change over time.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
98% Bondage receiver
83% Bondage giver
63% Degradation receiver
22% Degradation giver
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*** I do not recommend using the autopost to Fetlife option at the end of the test. I simply copied and pasted mine. If you would like more information on why, take a read ♤♤♤ [HERE] ♤♤♤ ***
Multiplayers don’t see sexuality as necessarily a 1 on 1 thing. Whether this means they will have several relationships or just see other people outside their relationship (or have even weirder constructions) depends entirely on the person and the situation, but they all have one thing in common: their sexuality is more than just between them and one fixed partner.
Bondage receiver (98%)
Bondage receivers likes to be tied up and restrained, using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, speaders…). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy being totally at the mercy of their partner(s).
Masochists enjoy receiving (certain types of) pain from their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Masochism is independent of pain tolerance: it is purely about the ability to enjoy certain levels of pain.
Submissives like to follow. Some like to give the control away to their partner(s), some like to have it forcibly taken from them. Some are submissive only in the bedroom, others are submissive throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the bottom roles (receiving pain/bondage/degradation), being submissive is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Bondage giver (83%)
Bondage givers like to tie up and restrain their partner(s), using rope and/or other attributes (chains, cuffs, speaders…). Whether for sexual enhancement, for art or just for fun, they enjoy having their partners completely at their mercy.
Experimentalists want to have tried it all. An open mind and an insatiable curiosity are their key features, and they will rarely form an opinion before they have gathered first hand experience. They often have plenty of fantasies and will actively pursue to try them out.
Sadists enjoy inflicting (certain types of) pain on their partner(s), usually in a sexual context. Consent hereby is always assumed.
Fetishists have a specific idea, situation, concept or object around which a large part of their sexual fantasies revolves. For some this is a necessity to get turned on, for others it’s only an addition to the more classical turn-ons.
Perverts are sexual freethinkers, not afraid to set traditional views and ethics aside to do what their own value system tells them is best. Whether they prefer being the predator or the prey, they’ll take the hunt to new extremes, and with their ‘anything goes’ mentality they will not let societal rules or expectations get in the way of their heart (or, for that matter, their genitals).
Degradation receiver (63%)
Degradation receiver like to be degraded and humiliated by their play partner(s), either by being acted upon in a degrading way, or by being forced do things they consider degrading.
Slaves completely hand over the control and responsibilities over their life to their master/mistress. They go a step further than submissives in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Serving their master/mistress is their primary focus in life and they rarely have limits for them.
Switches like to… well, switch. Always taking a dominant or top position is not for them, neither is always taking a submissive or bottom position. Some prefer to switch with the same partner or partners, others have a dominant play partner and a submissive play partner, but in either case they don’t fit on one end point of the spectrum.
Degradation giver (22%)
Degradation givers like to degrade and humiliate their play partner(s), either by acting upon them in a degrading way, or by or by forcing them to do things they consider degrading. Consent hereby is always assumed.
Dominants like to be in charge. Some like to have their partner obey them without questioning, others like some resistance while taking it their way. Some are dominant only in the bedroom, others are dominant throughout their daily life as well (usually with limitations). Unlike the top roles (giving paina/bondage/degradation), being dominant is more about who decides what happens (and takes the responsibility that comes with it) than about the contents of what happens.
Masters receive complete control over the life of their slave(s), and all responsibilities that come with it. They go a step further than dominants in the sense that their power exchange is present 24/7 and in all aspects of their life (except for negotiated exceptions such as during their office jobs). Their primary focus is to create a stable and safe environment for their slave(s), to allow optimal servitude.
All-rounders have no specific preferences to either category. It doesn’t matter who’s in charge and who inflicts what on who, they all like it equally much. They have no other suitable category here.
Vanilla people have a more traditional view on relationships and sexuality. They’re not in need of kink at all, instead they settle for the standard sexuality and relationship model that our society presents them.
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=7217